If you've made eighteen dates and she's made it to maybe two of them, then I'm sorry but she's treating you like a back up plan and believes you're always going to be there.
Maybe she "admitted" to being a bad friend, but that doesn't change her actions at all. It only makes her a douche, because she *knows* it.
Start saying "no" to her plans sometimes. "I'm not available" and even a "I don't want to" now and again.
Let her know that you're time is just as valuable as hers. And if she can't respect that (and you) then she can stick it.
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Date: 2011-04-16 04:22 am (UTC)If you've made eighteen dates and she's made it to maybe two of them, then I'm sorry but she's treating you like a back up plan and believes you're always going to be there.
Maybe she "admitted" to being a bad friend, but that doesn't change her actions at all. It only makes her a douche, because she *knows* it.
Start saying "no" to her plans sometimes. "I'm not available" and even a "I don't want to" now and again.
Let her know that you're time is just as valuable as hers. And if she can't respect that (and you) then she can stick it.